Is She is Flirting with You?

One of the several telltale signs that tell you she is flirting with you is written all over her face. Yep, it’s all in her facial expressions. Here is where I reveal some of the clever body language signs and signals that a woman will be broadcasting to you if she’s in a flirty mood and you are the center of her attention right now!

Here is a good one: To draw your attention to her totally beautiful lipstick-stained lips, she’ll softly chew and lick them. If she starts to flare her nostrils, you can tell she is sexually aroused. That, my friend is involuntary action on her part, so you better get it straight!

Be Direct

There is nothing wrong and everything right with taking the direct approach. Say you see a hot girl at a bar, you walk right up to her and then give her your best shot. But that could be a first mistake because you’re saying something without having the slightest clue if she’s even interested in you, or not.

This is so great. Talk about guys touching their own parts, spreading their legs as a kind of show of dominance is cool. There’s a name for when a guy does that but he takes up all the room on like public transport or something. It’s called “man spreading.”

Some guys will find any excuse to touch a woman on her arm, back, knee or shoulder or for that matter any other body part in a good way, you know that’s not creepy. If done right, it’ll make the hair on her skin all stand up and take notice.

Give it time, go surround yourself by all the right environments and conditions to get out and meet interesting women eg: common interest websites or forums, local charity groups are good places to start, especially have kind-hearted, warm people that are really great to meet.

Will She Call?

If she calls you up for no apparent reason. Some women make a habit of calling the one guy they’re most interested in, especially when they’re bored. This is way more true when they’re at a party, friend’s birthday or other kind of social event they don’t enjoy much or didn’t want to go to.

I have occasionally seen some women over many years put their hand so it’s either brushing past their face, or nose, or their eye areas. Then they briefly brush the side of their face near their ears and move their hair once I’ve made eye contact.  Be sure of what they symbolize as you don’t want to get used to the solo lifestyle!

We all want more free tips about raising our confidence through the roof, meeting up with girls anywhere and any time, then creating that raw sexual attraction, and more. Again, the eyes have it. When you’re reading female body language, look at her eyes… they’re the factor that surely and consistently seal the deal. That’s because certain micro-expressions are closely focused in the ocular area. So eye movement can be seen to be consistently the subconscious major final stop in all body language.

You want to know more signs telling you that a woman is interested in you and go on to learn how to get women to be more interested in you. You’re in luck, because I have more tips waiting for you!

Get Lucky

If you’re lucky (or unlucky… depending how you look at it) to come across a real teaser, this will be the kind of girl that likes to use long cylindrical objects as a kind of unconscious suggestion of what may be to come.  For example, she can use a variety of objects while simultaneously using her thumb and index finger to sensually rub up and down the object. Watch out as it can also be one of her fingers (she may repetitively take a ring off and put it back on), a cigarette, a longish dangling earring, a glass stem, or a drinking straw. You get the picture. In this example picture on the left is an Angelina Jolie lookalike doing a Vagina Mouth + Teaser combo – oh yeah – symbolically using her finger as a pseudo penis.

I noticed something today. I saw women bite their nails if they are eying up at times. I had this happen today and she stared half at me and also looked down at the same time. It was a bit aggressive in all honesty and some would find it quite intimidating the way she was going about it. I was walking back 10 minutes later, she was still there, I noticed some muttering as I went past. I also drove past her in the van 10 minutes later, I noticed she looked again. I’m going back there tomorrow and Saturday also. To be honest, I hope she’s there or lives at the house. I just might call in for a “coffee” lol.

What about when a woman cocks her brow? This is a gray area but definitely worth taking a look at. I say gray area because when a girl is cocking her brow it doesn’t necessarily indicate she likes you. The action needs to be coupled with something else. I’ll give you an example: a cocked eyebrow plus a smile in your direction has you in the clear. However, a cocked brow plus pursed lips should be sign to run for the hills!

Female Attraction

They many nod, rub their chin, look from side to side, or tilt their head, among other movements. In some ways, these are the telltale signs of female attraction (see: www.tjicl.org/articles/female-body-language-signs-of-attraction.php for details)!

Well, here’s how they work. Let’s say she nods her head occasionally, it means she is listening to what you’re saying. But if she nods too much, she’s bored, or she wants to tell you to change the topic. Now if she looks from side to side, it could be she’s pretending to be listening to your words, when in reality her thoughts are someplace else. When she rubs her chin, she is likely evaluating you. When she tilts her head, notice she is exposing her neck. That’s a sure sign of attraction. But if she yawns, too bad, you get the picture!

I’m a bit expressive with dance, but I learned quickly that dancing in bars and clubs can be a dangerous territory. I’ve experienced both men and women who will try to physically pick fights with me, in a mocking format or borderline aggressive manner. Needless to say, now I favor social dance events as they are safer with other dancers who actually can dance!

To some degree I feel that many aspects of men’s masculinity is learned rather than is evolved. Crying for example, is perfectly natural for men in many cultures. But I’m trying to keep the entire body language posts to mainly innate human qualities rather than learned ones.

Eye Contact

If a girl makes eye contact with you, most especially if it’s repeated, you can bet she’s definitely interested. Another way to tell if she likes you: Take note of whether she hides or flaunts the fact she’s watching you. If she lets you know she’s watching, you scored a home run, dude!

I’d like to highlight that what you’ve said has been brought to consciousness as of recently, but how you said it and your personality makes a difference.

Men are hunters and they love the thrill of the chase!

That’s the reason bars and other hang-outs are filled with members of the opposite sex. They’re ready to mingle in what are like playgrounds to them. A part of the hunt game includes sending a potential mate the right signals to let her know that she’s the one he has got his eye on.

Body posture refers to how someone holds themselves or how they position their body as they interact with you. The obvious ones are standing, sitting, and crouching, for example. Then there are the more subtle body posture cues that you need to be on the lookout for. Like the shifting of their weight from one leg to the other, slumping, or holding their body erect. All of these posturings can mean one thing or another. I’ll go over them all as I work through the methods of decoding the female body postures.

What if she lets someone else say “hi” to you for her, like her best friend says “Julie asked me to say hi!”. It can be something like, “Julie says hello,” or “Julie sends her regards,” or “Julie asked how you were doing.”

She smiles more. Smiling is one of the best indicators that a girl likes you. This means she enjoys being in your company and is cool about having you around. Notice how she reacts to other guys. If she smiles just as widely and as often, you may need to look out for other cues. But if you’re sure she’s treating you to most of her smiles, you totally have it in the bag.

Hands on Hips

What it means if a woman has both hands on her upper hips while facing you,  like a dancer’s pose? This happened to me recently at a social dance. I noticed her in this hands on hips position looking my way. She’s interested!

Eyes are like the windows to your soul. So look into her eyes and you will know the language they’re speaking. But not everyone knows ancient the art of “eye-reading.” Not every girl who maintains eye contact with you necessarily likes you.

She may be doing it because it’s good social etiquette. But then again hey! We learned in our grammar classes about the difference between looking and gazing? It’s a fact that shy girls in particular, have only this one means at their disposal to signal their attraction towards you. So try to keep an eye on her eyes to see what they may possibly be telling you!